Like the both of you, I also have incredible friends. You instilled in me the importance of friendship and illustrated throughout the years how to treat and cherish others, so they know how much you care about them. Thank you for leaving me, the wonderful gift of friendship.
Mom and Dad- they have really taken care of me these past few weeks and their thoughtfulness, generosity and support, will never be forgotten and will always be appreciated.
My friends brought me dinner, because they knew we wouldn't be in the mood to cook
My friends sent me flowers, because they knew they would brighten my day
My friends send me bottles of Wine from Napa Valley, because they know how much I love Wine and that we will toast to them and both of you, when we drink it
My friends come over, just to have a glass of Wine on the porch, and to sit and talk
My friends stay the night, because they knew I wouldn't want to be alone when Ted travels
My friends send me cheesecakes in Memory of you Mom, to celebrate your birthday
My friends send me cards and write thoughtful words, to make me smile
My friends send me emails, just to tell me they were thinking about me
My friends call me and I know I can call them anytime, any day, any minute, if I really need to talk
My friends flew and drove from all over the country, to be by my side
My friends are the greatest and I will be forever grateful for their continued friendship and support
I know my friends will continue making sure we keep the memory of both of you alive and continue coming with me, on my journey of life. I hope I can continue being the type of friend to them as they have been to me.
Dad- before I go, can you do me a favor? One of our greatest friends Eric, lost his Father last year to Cancer. Eric visited Ted and I last night and shared a lot about his Dad. I think you and his Dad would get along very well. Would you find Mr. Pogue up there and tell him that he would be incredibly proud of his Son and tell him what a wonderful person he continues to be? Thanks Dad.
6 comments:
Mel,
I am so inpsired by your writing and so fortunate to be included in your circle of friends. All of us at SCJ will be here to support you and stand by your side.
Love,
Jodi
Melissa
The web site is so beautiful. What a tribute to your Mom & Dad. I am sure they would be so proud as I know they were. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers daily.
Tim & Diane Tinsley
Melissa,
It was so evident at your Mom and Dad's funeral that you have so many wonderful friends, just like your parents do. It is because of how giving, open, and loving you are. I love reading your blog and I think it is a beautiful way to reflect on your journey of healing and remembering your amazing parents.
Much love,
Beth
You can count on all of us Mel. We will always be here for you!
Love,
Nicky
Melissa, Your parents instilled in you a gift that I admire every time I think of you. The gift of being a friend. The openness, the selflessness, the joy friendship brings to all those it touches. Your "heart on your sleeve" way of life is what makes you you. Your friends are amazing because of YOU. You allow those around you to jump on board something really beautiful. A friendship with you. Thank you so much mom and dad Olszowy for giving us such a wonderful person and for guiding her the way you did. We will always be here for you Mel!Love,Erin and Lily
Lil Mel,
Your friendship is effortless and I feel fortunate to be here for you to listen to your daily struggles, daily accomplishments, and frequent reminiscing of your parents!!
You are a social butterfly just like you said your parents were!!
What a great trait to acquire!!
Love ya!
Your Free Gardner "Julie"
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